Unless you’re this girl*, you probably spend a lot of time trying to make your face prettier. For a variety of reasons that have to do with vanity, trying to impress others, self-esteem, natural instinct and societal pressures, most women feel compelled to enhance their facial beauty, and will pay big bucks for it.
You’ve probably heard the figures: the average American woman will spend over a hundred thousand dollars on beauty products over her lifetime, or about $100 a month. For the wealthy, that number skyrockets to cover Creme de la Mer ($150 for 1 oz.) and even more pricey creams and serums containing things like gold, exotic mushrooms from the Himalayas, seawater from the Mariana Trench, Japanese Koishimaru silk, royal jelly, and even the precious metal platinum (found in La Prairie Cellular Cream Platinum Rare, the most expensive facial cream in the world at $1,000 a pop).
They must work, because celebrities and trophy wives, although normally more attractive than average by default, maintain their glisten and radiance a little longer than us plebeians. Studies have shown that perceived facial attractiveness has a lot to do with the smoothness of skin, although there are quite a few other factors involved as well.
But is dewy skin something you have to pay hundreds for? Is it only reserved for the rich and famous? I think not. As evidenced by Lindsay Lohan**, it has far more to do with what you consume and imbibe and how you treat yourself. Nutrients, oxygen and feel-good hormones are the foundation for beautiful skin; many indigenous populations who ate a diet rich in fruits, seafood, nuts and proteins while living active yet carefree lives were noted for their picture-perfect skin. Here are some inexpensive ways to give your skin a glow:
1. Eat right. This is imperative. If you have skin issues of any sort (outbreaks, wrinkles, dryness, dullness) then consider this area. Sometimes it might take several weeks to see a difference. You know the drill: drink lots of water and cut out the soda; juice and eat fresh fruits and vegetables; cut out the refined salt and sugar; eat unprocessed whole foods without pesticides, preservatives, artificial ingredients, antibiotics and other unnatural additives.
2. Drink lots of water. Duh, right? But there are variations on this theme: drinking hot or warm water, especially in the morning, is very good not only for the digestion but for the complexion (the two are closely related). Water with fresh lemon juice is also very cleansing for the body and clears the skin. Herbal teas (my favorite is Passion from Tazo, which contains hibiscus, rosehips and cinnamon, known relaxants) of many varieties are also beneficial.
3. Sweat. You can do this via exercise, sitting out in the sun (preferably in the late afternoon and not so long that you burn), in saunas, and by taking hot, steamy baths by candlelight.
4. Moisturize. But this doesn’t have to be super-fancy or super-expensive. For saturating, healing night creams, try pure shea butter, coconut oil, rosehip oil, almond oil, or even regular olive oil. For a light refreshing day moisturizer, try rosewater, jasmine, lavendar or plumeria spray (buy at Whole Foods for less than ten dollars or make your own by combining essential oils with water in a mister).
5. Relax. This is hugely important, not just for your looks but for your overall health, well-being and quality of life. You can counteract stress by meditating, taking long walks, basking in the moonlight, soaking in hot water and Epsom salt, and resting in the dark with classical music, candlelight and aromatherapy.
And what’s the single most important thing you can do to create a naturally glowing face? No, I’m not gonna say “Eat dark chocolate,” although I love me some dark chocolate and it wouldn’t hurt. The most important thing is to give your face some love. When you look in the mirror, look at yourself with love. Treat yourself gently. Think positive, loving, empowering thoughts about yourself and do not criticize yourself privately or publicly. What you think and feel can gradually become reality, and how you perceive yourself will affect how others perceive you.
You can even try this experiment. Spend several minutes repeating this mantra in your head “I am beautiful.” If you do this for half an hour or longer, then look in the mirror, you might be surprised that you actually do look more beautiful. You might also start getting different reactions from people. I have done this experiment several times myself, for example in a crowded airport. I will walk through seemingly invisible, with no one giving me a second glance. Then I will start repeating this in my head as I walk. Eventually, people will start to stare at me, and a few times they have even tried to approach me. One time a married flight attendant told me I stood out from the crowds and seemed to glow.
I don’t mean to say this in a bragging type of way. Indeed, these same strangers had been utterly unconcerned with me a couple hours prior. I do believe that thought can change reality, by some kind of unseen force. When you wash your face, touch it in any way, or put any kind of topical ointment on it, you should always send it loving thoughts when you do so. Your hands also can convey energy.
*This girl surely has a beautiful smile and a whole lot of cojones. While I personally wouldn’t choose to look this way even for religious beliefs, it takes all kinds to make a world. I’m just making a point that she is one of the very few women in the world who don’t try to enhance their appearance in some way, shape or form.
*Lindsay Lohan is gorgeous. I hope she can get back on the path to healthy living so her natural radiance can once again shine through, because she used to be one luscious looking redhead.